Posts Tagged ‘Relationship’

Older Beautiful Filipino Women

Monday, September 6th, 2010

Love knows no boundary we all know that. When it strikes to a man or woman, it will not look at his or her past, age, status, achievements and whatever criteria a man may think of. These women in this bracket are still very attractive, charming, sweet and caring. Though they are mature, sometimes that is the very qualities that men are looking for in a woman. Yes, some men prefer older women that range from thirty five to forty five years of age. Some Caucasian also wants women of their age. This is because mature women have more experienced in life and know how to handle a relationship. Their experiences in life allow them to make better choices and better decisions. This also means, foreign men will not have a hard time adjusting with them. Most older women do not like to have children because of their age, and there are some men who also think the same. They can be a perfect match in that area.

With these women, you do not have to go around the bush before you can say you piece. Of course, being direct does not mean being tactless. Filipino ladies do not like impolite people. You certainly cannot ask a Filipino lady to marry right away after you introduce your name to her. You cannot marry someone you do not know. But she would understand that your wanting to befriend her is with the hope that you two will find each other as a good match for a long term commitment. As a mature being, she will not run away from you but she would also be direct in dealing with you and speaking her mind. Another thing why some men want a Filipina wife in general is that she makes her husband and her children her priority. She will trade them for anything in this world. For her, her main role is to be the helpmate that her husband needs in building their home. She definitely knows what to do and how to please her husband. For sure, older beautiful Filipina women are excellent wives.

A Look on Filipino Wedding Traditions

Thursday, June 10th, 2010

Filipinos, when it comes to marriage, follows certain customs and traditions that is why Philippine Weddings should be well-planned by the marrying couple. Some of our country’s Wedding Traditions involves responsibilities or tasks that the couple and their families must do in order for the relationship of the couple to blossom. The couple must execute some traditional rituals as we learned from our local ancestors and some from the Spanish colonial era. These rituals are slowly fading in the current generation yet not totally being forgotten from our culture.

The actual day of wedlock for example, is a lengthy yet solemn ceremony at the couple’s respected religious sector’s churches. The place of their marriage tells the sanctity of wedlock and tells the couple that they are expected to blossom the relationship and last for the rest of their lives. Some traditions before the wedding are the “pamamanhikan” and “sukob”. In pamamanhikan, the family of the man is supposed to go to the lady’s family to ask for the hand of the bride from the girl’s parents. Some of the wedding details and the plans of the couple after the ceremony are also talked about. In sukob, two sisters are not advised to marry on the same year because it is believed to bring bad luck to both of the couples.

Post-wedding customs generally are done immediately after the nuptial ceremony. The reception must be cleared before noontime because the bride needs to be at the groom’s house before noon for the lovers to have good luck in their companionship. There are many Philippine Wedding customs that we have followed from our ancestors throughout the ages. These customs just show how Our countrymen value the importance of marriage.